During this Christmas season, I have thought about memories of things that strengthened my relationships with my family members over the years, mainly family time.
For example, growing up, I would spend a few minutes before going to bed each night talking with my mom about our days. Consequently, I feel like I can talk to my mom about anything.
Likewise, I have always loved playing games with my immediate and extended family. My cousins are my best friends, so I love spending time with them just talking. When I was growing up, my favorite tradition was getting together with extended family every month to celebrate birthdays and just hang out.
Can you tell my love language is quality time?
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Family Time is Important
Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf, who I believe to be an apostle of Jesus Christ, said:
Tips for Prioritizing Family Time
Here are some tips to help you prioritize family time.
- Dedicate a specific time each week for family time.
- Go on dates with your spouse and your kids individually.
- Make the time in the car count.
I remember going on road trips with my family growing up. During our long drives, we often played alphabet games using road signs, car license plates, and other signs we passed. In addition, we played games like I Spy, finding all 50 states license plates, and word games. Listening to audio books also helped us pass the time.
Tips for Long Distance
If you don’t have family close by utilize technology.
- Call, text, or video chat
- Use apps like Marco Polo to send video messages
Talk to Each Other
Another tip is to have real conversations with each other. Use the time in the car, at the kitchen table, one-on-one as you do activities together, after school, and before bed to find out how your children are doing.
Get to know your children. Keep the conversation going. Keep the line of communication open, so your children will readily come to you with anything.
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What strengthens your family relationships?
What tips do you have?
Share your thoughts in the comments.
I’ve found that doing something that my family member likes to do with them, even if I don’t necessarily enjoy it myself really strengthens my relationship with them. Everyone wants to share things they like and are excited about. If we take time to recognize and be a part of those things, it can mean a lot to them!
Jesse,
That is so true. I love that idea and reminder. Thanks for sharing!